My name is Brenda and my husband's name is Paul.

I mention this only because if he reads this he will know who wrote it and who it is to. Paul has been sort of promoting the idea of swapping for some time without actually saying it.

He often points out hunks on the street or whereever and asks how that would feel between my legs, etc. He often flirts with other women and enjoys wotching my and her reactions. I didn't think to much of it untill the day I found a password on a pad under the desk blotter with the initials Adult FriendFinder behind it. I had seen Adult FriendFinder on the favourites list before without thinking too much about what it might be. But now I keyed it in and with the password soon found that we were Gold members. I also soon found VIEW MY LISTING and there was a nice picture of myself clothed but sexy. WE were listed as new to the lifestyle, but curious and adventuresome. This was news to me, but I'm no prude and I cruised through picture ads in my area for the rest of the afternoon, and I had to admit it was a turnon. I would love the tell Paul to go for it and find us soemone to swing with, but I can't be sure of his intentions.

He maybe just wants to look at the pictures without going beyond the fantasy.

Hence this letter. I could never go to him and open the subject, but if he reads magazine articles, he might find this letter, and take the lead.

In the meantime, I will know its here and have a few fantasies myself.